If your skin stings at water, gets shiny-but-tight, or flushes at the slightest breeze… that’s not “problem skin.” That’s a stressed barrier and an overwhelmed nervous system. You don’t need stronger acids — you need safety, softness, and consistency.
I’m Tabi — Skin Health Specialist, Author & Healer. I created the Skin Triangle Method™ (Topical • Internal • Emotional) to help you calm inflammation without wrecking your barrier or your ethics.
👉 Not sure where to start? Take the free Skin Triangle Quiz — find your fastest focus (Topical, Internal, or Emotional) in 60 seconds.
Burning/stinging from basic products
Tight, glassy skin that still feels dry
Flushing/redness, sudden sensitivity to SPF
Breakouts + rough texture after weeks of daily acids
If that’s you, hit pause on the harsh stuff and run this simple routine.
AM
Cleanse (or just rinse): ultra-gentle, non-stripping.
Hydrate: mist/essence with humectants (glycerin and postbiotics).
Barrier serum: panthenol, beta-glucan, lactobacillus ferment.
Moisturise: squalane + ceramide-rich cream (vegan, fragrance-free).
SPF: mineral or very gentle formula your skin tolerates.
PM
Cleanse: soft gel or milk; add an oil cleanse only if wearing makeup/SPF stacks.
Replenish: essence or light serum
Moisturise: same cream
Nervous system: 5 minutes of breath/EFT before bed (your skin listens).
Once this week (optional): a gentle enzyme or PHA polish — not AHAs, not daily. If your skin protests, skip.
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Humectants: glycerin, aloe
Soothers: panthenol, allantoin, beta-glucan
Barrier fats: squalane, phytosterols, ceramides (vegan-friendly)
Biome helpers: lactobacillus ferments, inulin, postbiotics
Daily acids/harsh actives (glycolic, high-dose retinoids)
Barrier bullies: benzoyl peroxide, denatured alcohol, heavy fragrance/essential oils
Preservatives you don’t vibe with: phenoxyethanol, parabens, formaldehyde-releasers (your skin, your boundary)
Hydrate + minerals: 2L water/day; add a pinch of electrolytes if needed.
Plant fats: chia/flax/walnuts for skin-loving ALA.
Polyphenols: berries, greens, cacao — feed your microbes.
Regulate: 4-7-8 breathing x 3 rounds or a 5-min EFT for skin stress.
Mirror script: “My skin is safe with me. I heal softly and consistently.”
👉 Not sure if your next step should be topical, internal, or emotional? Take the free Skin Triangle Quiz.
How long until my barrier feels normal?
Many feel calmer in 1–2 weeks, sturdier by 4–6 with consistency.
Do I have to exfoliate?
No. Sensitive/inflamed skin often thrives with rare, gentle exfoliation (enzymes/PHA) or none at all.
Mineral vs chemical SPF?
Choose the one your skin actually tolerates without sting. Comfort > theory.
Can I be vegan and still repair my barrier?
Yes. Look for ceramides, squalane, ectoin, beta-glucan, phytosterols — all vegan-friendly and barrier-loving.
You don’t need a 10-step overhaul. You need the right first step for your skin.
👉 Take the free Skin Triangle Quiz — get your pillar (Topical / Internal / Emotional) and a calm plan you can start today.
Regulate to radiate. Your skin is listening. 🌊