The Lie We’ve All Been Sold

For years, I believed what almost everyone does:

“When my skin finally clears, then I’ll feel confident. Then I’ll love myself. Then I’ll start living.”

It sounds logical, right? Your acne goes away → your confidence magically arrives.

But here’s the truth no one talks about: your results don’t unlock confidence.

If anything, waiting for perfect skin to grant you permission keeps you stuck in a loop of fear, frustration, and self-hatred.

Confidence is not the result.
Confidence is the foundation.

My Story: Confidence Before Clear Skin

When I was deep in acne and skin dysmorphia, I avoided mirrors. I layered makeup like armor. I turned down plans, photos, and opportunities because I felt too ashamed of my skin.

I genuinely believed confidence was something reserved for “after.”

But what shifted everything was realising this: if I kept waiting, I’d be waiting forever.

So, I began to build skin confidence before I saw results.

It was terrifying...

Beautiful soul, if your skin journey has left you feeling stressed, anxious, or disconnected from yourself — you’re not alone. Healing isn’t just about skincare or nutrition. It’s also about how safe and confident you feel in your own body.

That’s why I created the Highest Self Glow Activation — a 10-minute guided meditation to help you pause, soften, and reconnect with the most confident, radiant version of you. ✨

🌿 Why Meditation Matters for Skin + Confidence

When your nervous system is in constant “fight or flight,” your body struggles to heal. Stress hormones like cortisol trigger inflammation, oil imbalance, and breakouts — leaving your skin stuck in a cycle.

Meditation helps you:

• Regulate your nervous system through breath and grounding 🌬

• Lower stress hormones so your skin can repair naturally 💕

• Reconnect with your feminine softness + confidence 🌸

• Remember that your glow isn’t just about your skin, but about who you are ✨

🎧 What You’ll Exper...

Elle’s Story: Why Confidence Can’t Wait for Perfect Skin

When Elle first came to me, she carried years of acne, scarring, and insecurity with her. Every morning felt like a battle with her reflection. She told me she hated leaving the house without heavy makeup — because it felt like the only way to hide.

She believed confidence was something she’d only “earn” after her skin was flawless.

But here’s the truth I’ve seen again and again: confidence doesn’t come after perfect skin. Confidence is what allows your skin to finally heal.

The Shift: Working with the Skin Triangle™

When Elle stepped into my world, we began with the Skin Triangle Method™ — my signature approach that focuses on the three interconnected layers of skin healing:

🌿 Topical → barrier-safe products that support, not strip.
🥗 Internal → nutrition + lifestyle shifts that calm inflammation.
💌 Emotional → nervous system regulation + rewriting the stories we tell ourselves.

Elle was already trying hard on the fir...

The Barrier Repair Routine for Inflamed, Sensitive Skin (Vegan + Microbiome-Safe) + Free Quiz

If your skin stings at water, gets shiny-but-tight, or flushes at the slightest breeze… that’s not “problem skin.” That’s a stressed barrier and an overwhelmed nervous system. You don’t need stronger acids — you need safety, softness, and consistency.

I’m Tabi — Skin Health Specialist, Author & Healer. I created the Skin Triangle Method™ (Topical • Internal • Emotional) to help you calm inflammation without wrecking your barrier or your ethics.

👉 Not sure where to start? Take the free Skin Triangle Quiz — find your fastest focus (Topical, Internal, or Emotional) in 60 seconds.

Signs your barrier needs a reset

• Burning/stinging from basic products

• Tight, glassy skin that still feels dry

• Flushing/redness, sudden sensitivity to SPF

• Breakouts + rough texture after weeks of daily acids

If that’s you, hit pause on the harsh stuff and run this simple routine.

7-Day Ba...

Nurture & Glow: A Luxury Skin & Self-Care Event on April 6th

Are you ready for an evening of beauty, relaxation, and creativity? On Sunday, April 6th, 2025, from 4-6 PM, I’m teaming up with Creative Colour Specialist Steph to bring you an unforgettable self-care experience at PinkLime Hair in Stockton-On-Tees. If you love skincare, creativity, and good vibes, this event is for you!

What to Expect at Nurture & Glow

This event is designed to nurture your skin, mind, and creativity while giving you the chance to connect with like-minded women in a luxurious, relaxing setting.

Here’s what’s in store for you:

🌿 Paint & Plant with Steph

Tap into your creative side! Steph will guide you through painting your own beautiful plant pot, which you’ll then use to plant a small living green friend to take home.

💆‍♀️ Live Skin Demonstration & Expert Tips

I’ll be giving a live skincare demonstration, sharing my expert insights on how to properly care for your skin at home. You’ll leave with a...